What happens at a Perchance gathering?
Our gatherings designed for optimal connection. They are part open mingle (think warm, friendly cocktail party), and part guided conversations with individual guests. Each gathering has a different character based on the people, place and moment in time. We promise a fun, low pressure environment with a few surprises along the way. ✨
How do I get invited?
Step one is to apply on our site. If accepted, you’ll receive information on how to sign up for a gathering. Since gatherings are curated for compatibility, you may not receive invitations to every single event we host.
What is the age range of participants?
We encourage all ages to apply. We will reach out to you with invitations to gatherings that suited for your age.
Do you host events for all sexualities and gender identities?
Absolutely! We are inclusive and encourage all orientations to apply to attend.
Can I bring a friend?
Each gathering is curated and each guest is intentionally considered. That said, If you have a friend that you’d like to bring to a gathering, email us
and we will try to accommodate them. We aim to mix the groups and diversify social circles. If there are multiple mutual friends in a group, we may ask you to sign up for different events.
Can I host an event at my store or home?
Yes! If you have a welcoming space and would like to host, please reach out
. We’d love to chat!
Where can I attend an event?
Currently we host gatherings in NYC and LA. If you’re not local we still encourage you to apply. We’re expanding soon and we’re more likely to come to your city if there are more applications from there.