Modern Dating, Old School Magic
CURATED Gatherings TO SPARK CONNECTION
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Meet  Perchance
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Perchance is a new way to date.

We gather groups of fun, open-minded people for experiences designed to spark connection - romantic or otherwise.

Our gatherings are inclusive and we welcome all gender identities and sexual orientations.
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What to Expect
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01.
Meet Like-minded Singles
We introduce you to an entire group of eligible people in the time it would take for a single date.
02.
Leave Your Phone at the Door
Unplug and be present with us for the evening - no texting, no selfies, no swiping.
02.
Leave Your Phone at the Door
Unplug and be present with us for the evening - no texting, no selfies, no swiping.
03.
Keep Things Interesting
Fun, conversation-sparking activities guide the evening and take you beyond surface-level small talk.
04.
Connect If It’s Mutual
Afterwards, tell us who you felt a spark with - either romantic or friendly. If it’s mutual, we’ll make the connection.
04.
Connect If It’s Mutual
Afterwards, tell us who you felt a spark with - either romantic or friendly. If it’s mutual, we’ll make the connection.
Gather With Us
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11
December
Mixer
Queer WOmen & Non Binary
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6:30 pm
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8:30 pm
The Phluid Project
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New York
13
December
Shabbat Mixer
Straight
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7:30 pm
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7:30 pm
Secret Location
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New York
19
December
Mixer
Straight
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7:30 pm
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9:30 pm
Rita House
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Los Angeles
11
December
Mixer
Queer WOmen & Non Binary
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6:30 pm
-
8:30 pm
The Phluid Project
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New York
Gather with Us
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11
December
2019
Mixer
Queer WOmen & Non Binary
WHERE?
The Phluid Project
6:30 pm
~
8:30 pm
13
December
2019
Shabbat Mixer
Straight
WHERE?
Secret Location
7:30 pm
~
7:30 pm
19
December
2019
Mixer
Straight
WHERE?
Rita House
7:30 pm
~
9:30 pm
11
December
2019
Mixer
Queer WOmen & Non Binary
WHERE?
The Phluid Project
6:30 pm
~
8:30 pm
13
December
2019
Shabbat Mixer
Straight
WHERE?
Secret Location
7:30 pm
~
7:30 pm
11
December
2019
Mixer
Queer WOmen & Non Binary
WHERE?
The Phluid Project
6:30 pm
~
8:30 pm
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Words of Kindness
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After leaving Perchance I felt magnetically drawn to other people, and vice versa. Something about my interactions there infused me with some crazy human juice. You have something special here.”
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Jon
“We are all looking for spaces to drop into ourselves and into interactions with others. Perchance is one of the best spaces I have found in NYC to do so in a way that gives room for romantic relating.”
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Rachel
“In a city as siloed as New York, where anonymity and social anxiety are de rigueur and glowing smartphone screens are often too tempting, we're lucky to have Perchance. There's nothing like breaking out of a bubble to seek new experiences together..”
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John
After leaving Perchance I felt magnetically drawn to other people, and vice versa. Something about my interactions there infused me with some crazy human juice. You have something special here.”
~
Jon
“In a city as siloed as New York, where anonymity and social anxiety are de rigueur and glowing smartphone screens are often too tempting, we're lucky to have Perchance. There's nothing like breaking out of a bubble to seek new experiences together..”
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John