Modern Dating, Old School Magic
CURATED Gatherings TO SPARK CONNECTION
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Meet  Perchance
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Perchance is a new way to date.

We gather groups of fun, open-minded people for experiences designed to spark connection - romantic or otherwise.

Our gatherings are inclusive and we welcome all gender identities and sexual orientations.
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What to Expect
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01.
Meet Like-minded Singles
We introduce you to an entire group of eligible people in the time it would take for a single date.
02.
Leave Your Phone at the Door
Unplug and be present with us for the evening - no texting, no selfies, no swiping.
02.
Leave Your Phone at the Door
Unplug and be present with us for the evening - no texting, no selfies, no swiping.
03.
Keep Things Interesting
Fun, conversation-sparking activities guide the evening and take you beyond surface-level small talk.
04.
Connect If It’s Mutual
Afterwards, tell us who you felt a spark with - either romantic or friendly. If it’s mutual, we’ll make the connection.
04.
Connect If It’s Mutual
Afterwards, tell us who you felt a spark with - either romantic or friendly. If it’s mutual, we’ll make the connection.
Gather With Us
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18
November
Mixer
Ludlow House Members
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6:30 pm
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8:30 pm
Ludlow House
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New York
20
November
Mixer
Straight
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7:30 pm
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9:30 pm
Showfields
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New York
6
December
Happy Hour
All Welcome
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7:30 pm
-
9:30 pm
Secret Location
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New York
18
November
Mixer
Ludlow House Members
~
6:30 pm
-
8:30 pm
Ludlow House
APPLY TO ATTEND
New York
Gather with Us
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18
November
2019
Mixer
Ludlow House Members
WHERE?
Ludlow House
6:30 pm
~
8:30 pm
20
November
2019
Mixer
Straight
WHERE?
Showfields
7:30 pm
~
9:30 pm
6
December
2019
Happy Hour
All Welcome
WHERE?
Secret Location
7:30 pm
~
9:30 pm
18
November
2019
Mixer
Ludlow House Members
WHERE?
Ludlow House
6:30 pm
~
8:30 pm
20
November
2019
Mixer
Straight
WHERE?
Showfields
7:30 pm
~
9:30 pm
18
November
2019
Mixer
Ludlow House Members
WHERE?
Ludlow House
6:30 pm
~
8:30 pm
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Words of Kindness
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After leaving Perchance I felt magnetically drawn to other people, and vice versa. Something about my interactions there infused me with some crazy human juice. You have something special here.”
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Jon
"The series of 5 minute conversations I had with complete strangers were 6 of the 10 deepest conversations I had this week. Perchance makes it so easy to dive into a meaningful conversations."
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Ryan
“We are all looking for spaces to drop into ourselves and into interactions with others. Perchance is one of the best spaces I have found in NYC to do so in a way that gives room for romantic relating.”
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Rachel
After leaving Perchance I felt magnetically drawn to other people, and vice versa. Something about my interactions there infused me with some crazy human juice. You have something special here.”
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Jon
“In a city as siloed as New York, where anonymity and social anxiety are de rigueur and glowing smartphone screens are often too tempting, we're lucky to have Perchance. There's nothing like breaking out of a bubble to seek new experiences together..”
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John