Curated gatherings to spark connection. 



Today we’re living in the most technologically connected period in history and yet feeling lonelier than ever. Perchance is on a mission to change that.

Our gatherings bring together curious, open-minded and adventurous singles to experience an evening of conversation, discovery and activities designed to foster authentic connection. We host gatherings at magical locations throughout NYC. No two events are ever the same. 

Our events are referral-based and we accept recommendations. Solo guests are welcome. We invite all gender identities and sexual orientations to apply.



What happens at a Perchance gathering?

Our gatherings are intentionally designed with connection in mind. They are part open mingle (think warm, friendly cocktail party), and part guided conversations with individual guests. Each gathering has a different character based on the people, place and moment in time. We promise a fun, low pressure environment with a few surprises along the way. ✨

How do I get invited?

Step one is to apply on our site. We ask a few questions to get a better sense of who you are and what you’re looking for. If selected for an upcoming gathering, we will be in touch soon with more details on how to sign up.

What is included in the ticket price?

Purchasing a ticket gets you admission to the gathering, drinks (beer, wine, signature cocktail), and 11+ mini-dates with a curated group of exceptional singles.

What is the age range of participants?

Unless otherwise indicated, the age range of our gatherings is 25-38.

Do you host events for all sexualities and gender identities?

Absolutely! We are inclusive and encourage all orientations to apply to attend.

Can I bring a friend?

Each gathering is intimately curated and each guest is intentionally considered. That said, If you have a friend that you’d like to bring to a gathering, email us at and we will try to accommodate them. We aim to mix the groups and diversify social circles. If there are multiple mutual friends in a group, we may ask you to sign up for different events.

Can I host a gathering at my store or home?

Yes! If you have a welcoming space and would like to host, reach out to We’d love to chat!